When two people form a bond, you know it and its unexplainable to everyone else, but its there and you both know it. At first it’s a whirlwind of emotions and it doesn’t seem at all that promising, but life, love and relationships take all kinds of shapes, and it’s a love you can’t really recognize at first.
Love is not about expecting someone to make you happy everyday; it’s about two individuals coming together and starting to share a life together. As time goes by, time and time again things will change, and time and time again, problems will arise and of course resolve, and through it all love remains intact and the bond becomes that much more infallible. In the end, all you can hope for is that this connection you have made forms an intangible bond that remains eternally solid no matter where your individual lives may lead each of you if you were to decide to take separate roads and break away.
If it doesn’t hurt when you separate or it doesn’t hurt to think about one another in those moments of distance, then of course the connection was never one of any worth. But if the thought… the simple thought is a nightmare bringing upon u misery and anguish, then it’s a bond worth keeping because you mean that much to each other and it’s a bond worth fighting for.
However, there is always pain mixed in with the wonders that come with love. Love is pain, pain is love, and believe it or not, love does kill slowly. There is no such thing as a perfect love, but true love does conquer all, and love never ends. You don’t live day by day dreading what is the worst that could come, but live and cherish both the good with the bad that comes out of love.
Every obstacle that is overcome only makes you both stronger, and just the same every virtue, both those reminisced and those savored in the moment remind you of the reason you let yourselves become one, despite what those on the outside looking in thought would be a complete failure. Whether it be a love between two friends… or a love between two lovers… in the end this bond, this love is one of sweet perfection, and the fairytale come true you never thought could possibly exist.
Yin and I have formed a bond… and already knowing all this and despite of what everyone else says, we both know this time it’s different… because this time he has the decency of holding back because this time…. It’s not going to be done wrong. It’s an almost perfect friendship and a bond that has this far been impossible to break.